Hard Days Are For Growth

Today I am just so emotional and emotionally drained .

My baby girl refused to nap today , she only had 3 20 minute naps in her pram , the WHOLE DAY ! And she is not even 5 months yet , when I put her in her bed she screamed uncontrollably!

Its heartbreaking to say the least , it touches my soul , there is just no other way to explain it , my hands have been sweating the whole day , I’ve cried 3 times already , and then my husband tells me I am uptight today (men right)

But seriously , how intense is this love ? I have always heard that when your child hurts , you hurt , but have never experienced it myself yet , until today that is , everything is just out of wack , I don’t feel like myself , I want to cry all the time !

But I know tomorrow will be better !

Thank goodness I have a blog so that I can offload on all you great listeners 🧡


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Im 27 years old and live in Ganyesa North West South Africa. Married to an amazing husband and have a sweet little baby girl :)

13 thoughts on “Hard Days Are For Growth”

    1. Thanx for the suggestion ,but tried and failed with that haha my baby girl hates it , I actually even bought three different ones just to be sure 🙈 but thank you ! 🙏🏻

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      1. Sometimes, children get colicky when they are on backs so try sideways or on your chest and tummy… I did that with my niece, some days she would sleep… Do you have help? Nanny, some older grandmother or lady who have been around kids. You are doing everything on your own. My sis says it takes a village to help in the first few months…
        I will ask her tomorrow if you need some extra pointers…

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      2. Sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude, but my sis too managed kind of alone, no sleep for 6 months to a year…so she would have better ways. Please let me know if you want me to ask something specific

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      3. Not rude at all !!! ❤️ thanx for caring ! And yeah , not having help
        Is intense , my husband helps so much , but he works and also has other things to do so yeah . But it only makes us stronger 😆

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